tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post2247677934412962876..comments2024-03-13T05:16:36.807-04:00Comments on DC Cised: Maybe This Timedccisedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02661643625470077875noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-70754714797804926752009-12-16T01:08:27.074-05:002009-12-16T01:08:27.074-05:00i totally know how you feel. it is always difficu...i totally know how you feel. it is always difficult to always be around something/someone that you will/may never have. i just try to focus on the perspective that it is better to have some relationship with that awesome and supremely compatible person rather than no relationship at all. good luck!!!fuck, i'm gayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05408039465179468982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-39210344236075242792009-11-19T16:24:29.721-05:002009-11-19T16:24:29.721-05:00That's what I'm saying. Get him to go to ...That's what I'm saying. Get him to go to <a href="http://www.drugsno.com" rel="nofollow">drug rehab</a> and say it sober.Drewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04621000878112839361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-53297504867172466212009-11-06T21:04:11.725-05:002009-11-06T21:04:11.725-05:00oh the Tidal Basin is so trashy. aim higher. you...oh the Tidal Basin is so trashy. aim higher. you are worth it. i say single shot mouth, picnic table, along side the Potomac.Mikenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-56763850721108592482009-11-05T22:29:46.435-05:002009-11-05T22:29:46.435-05:00I can't decide which of you is sean batemen an...I can't decide which of you is sean batemen and which is paul denton.<br /><br />Oh and don't stop drinking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-79518646863457587862009-11-05T20:59:25.846-05:002009-11-05T20:59:25.846-05:00if you substitute Tall Blonde Pothead / Mousy Red ...if you substitute Tall Blonde Pothead / Mousy Red Half-Irish, you have my second and third years of college...<br /><br />great blog. keep it up.j sprattnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-67674297842123417552009-11-05T16:37:12.656-05:002009-11-05T16:37:12.656-05:00never date anyone coming out of the closet...perio...never date anyone coming out of the closet...period <br />It's always exactly like this and it's a long slow drawn out process for someone to be different and honest when they lied and concealed things before. It's just human nature and your right he will break your heart.Timhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717441977001081956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-22152205547511114702009-11-05T16:35:00.145-05:002009-11-05T16:35:00.145-05:00Cut it off as soon as you can. You'll dig your...Cut it off as soon as you can. You'll dig yourself deeper and it's not worth the energy spent wondering constantly. <br /><br />He may want you. I wouldn't doubt it. Alcohol may make him feel more comfortable with his decisions but he's obviously not mature enough to deal with his emotions<br /><br />and you deserve someone who is capable of articulating his feelings, what he wants and is able to respect you.<br /><br />Granted, it may take awhile to find that person but you're an incredible and deep guy so you will find him. No doubt about it.<br /><br />I just don't want you to see you getting hurt by someone who doesn't deserve this much of your time.seanhttp://usedtobebostonteaparty.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-4973224990842487602009-11-04T19:40:17.596-05:002009-11-04T19:40:17.596-05:00It sounds like guilt and part of him coming out an...It sounds like guilt and part of him coming out and accepting himself, if nothing else.<br /><br />Perhaps things will get better, perhaps not. Maybe it'd be a good idea to not get drunk together, and to have a talk about all of this.Aekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12183623849361560922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-9637802429986871782009-11-04T18:24:28.649-05:002009-11-04T18:24:28.649-05:00honestly, i just wish i had your alcohol tolerance...honestly, i just wish i had your alcohol tolerance. :omstpboundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11972328574423374136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-31418661147191531542009-11-04T11:42:33.993-05:002009-11-04T11:42:33.993-05:00From his point of view, you are his best friend. I...From his point of view, you are his best friend. I think he's concerned that fooling around with you will jeopardize that friendship--which I'll bet is more important to him right now than any hookup.<br /><br />Also keep in mind that his alcoholism will eventually come between you two--regardless of what else happens. He has to drink--you apparently don't.Oldyellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01913704885063140126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-32521410778766087862009-11-04T11:20:01.913-05:002009-11-04T11:20:01.913-05:00He's scared. You're scared. But your are d...He's scared. You're scared. But your are definitely less scared and more capable of dealing with this than he is, so initiate a thoughtful conversation about it and put him at ease. Take the lead.<br /><br />And for the love of God (or whatever you believe), stop drinking so much. It's a massive crutch that is crippling your and his ability to communicate. Instead of thinking, "Hey, we should talk about this," you two just think, "Hey, let's just keep drinking and drinking until something happens." That will only exacerbate the problem you're writing about until this relationship implodes. Please don't start down this path, b/c it will only lead to major problems all across the board.<br /><br />He wants you. You want him. I want you to have him. Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-6595856192094492892009-11-04T06:32:27.315-05:002009-11-04T06:32:27.315-05:00this is very typical rite of passage for coming ou...this is very typical rite of passage for coming out... he cant make the full step in one go... but of course he wants you!!!!!! have no doubt about that<br /><br />whether he stays with you once he fully 100% commits to being gay or not is a different story...<br /><br />Stop the guilt trip and just enjoy itLimited profilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015289280509132692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-35267360318475032002009-11-04T03:21:51.642-05:002009-11-04T03:21:51.642-05:00Love the devil wears prada line.Love the devil wears prada line.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699093302693471788.post-6594746133774575992009-11-04T01:19:32.481-05:002009-11-04T01:19:32.481-05:00I think he just may be scared.
If he just came ou...I think he just may be scared.<br /><br />If he just came out (ever) then everything is absolutely new and scary; and probably does not know how to approach this kind of relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com